Ignoring a narcissist. The best revenge.

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http://getoveranarcissist.com/no-contact-narcissist/

This is an excellent article. I just had my narcissist-victim-stalker attack me on a blog yet once again. Stupidly I thought my pictures on Facebook were safe I did do them to friends only. Well one of those friends must not be a friend because there low and behold on her blog is a picture of me, another one of her victims and my clueless husband all being called “haters”. Hate I don’t hate you I think you are a pathetic excuse for a human. How dare we enjoy ourselves at a Garlic Festival the horror!!

The problem with this poor soul is that she is so empty and void of human empathy and emotion she needs to continuously make dramatic posts. Never mind that they are rambling, ridiculous and pointless just keep posting. Well if my photo with my friends having fun at a Garlic Festival of all things makes her life complete I wish her joy in it.

Sorry I am not getting in your drama you really need to find someone that is willing to play along as none of your former victims and former friends turned into your victims are interested any more.

I know that the absence of people paying attention to you is tearing you apart but perhaps you can find a hobby. Maybe that will fill your empty place but we are not going to be your fellow players in the drama of your boring life.

So the point of this post is to not get in their drama. Let them revolve alone in their orbit as that is where they live anyway. Otherwise you will keep being annoyed and sometimes worse attacked physically. This thing lives in another country so at least that is not my concern. I can just continue to enjoy my life with my friends and let her wallow in her misery. Hmmmmmm maybe next stop an Apple Festival I really enjoy the wild life don’t I??

Peace out dear friends hope you have a happy drama free day.

By Gale A. Molinari

Sharing my views on just about everything that enters my mind. Fasten your seatbelts it is going to be a bumpy ride. I am just a lady of a certain age somewhere between the dinosaurs and stalactites. Musing over lessons learned and sharing those with others. I really am interested in your views on what I write so fire away and thank you for taking the time to check out my blog. https://wordpress.com/stats/galemolinari.wordpress.com this is my poetry blog perhaps you would enjoy that too!!

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    1. Yes it is and it is a shame that I am not comfortable posting my picture on Facebook due to a troll copying it and using it in a vile picture with my dogs head on a pike. Facebook removed it but that troll is still there with her puppet so I am really stretching it with my picture on WP. So far it hasn’t been a problem as the people here seem more interested in other pursuits than trolling others.

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  3. Of course it is and people need to be aware so they can protect themselves and their children. People are unaware that anyone with a nefarious purpose can just help themselves with impunity. Everyone needs to protect themselves from these sorts of attacks.

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  12. I was “lucky” and discarded by my N “best friend” because my husband made no qualms about making it known (to his face) that he knew about him trying to catfish me behind his fiancee’s back. He tucked his tail and ran via silent treatment, so that didn’t work for me. When I found out about his smear campaign, I scanned and posted online all his handwritten letters that busted him out as a lying sack o’ crap. It was over a year before he found out about it. He was lying to our friends the whole time and they knew it. His reaction when he found out was priceless. I smiled for three days straight.

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    1. The problem a narcissist has is they are a narcissist therefore they are smarter than everyone else. Well they think they are until they find out different. I think this is fabulous! Best way to deal with them is drag them out into the light of day and watch them disintegrate. Bravo.

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      1. It was so awesome. The best part is when he tried to play the “public penitent” by “coming clean” on Facebook. He screwed it up horribly. Many a mutual friend was appalled and quite a few told me how afterward he tried to fish them for damage reports. He’s been unable to attend so many social functions (his raison d’etre) because he has to keep his fiancee away from me (lest we compare notes) and now he’s REALLY screwed.

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      3. Oh, I have no doubt. I’m probably the most jealous person in the world and he nobly decided that my toxicity was something he didn’t need in his life, and I said mean things about his fiancee and blahhh blahhhh blahhh.

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      4. Too funny…today our mutual friend came over and he told me that Narc-y Narc was saying that I was the worst person in the world and I was trying to ruin him. Trying, my ass. I’m succeeding! I’ve basically forced him into hermit-tude because I exposed him. Our friend told him that it was his fault and he ruined our friendship because he wanted to get cute and play games, just like he ruined everything else in his life and he could just drop the victim role. What a great day!

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      6. I guarantee that he did not. I was his friend for fourteen years, nine of those as a bestie (there’s a larf) and he’s getting more obvious if anything. He doesn’t learn lessons. His OWN LAWYER had to (try to) explain that lying by omission is STILL LYING and you can’t do that in court or to the police (after I told him, ohhh…five or six times over the course.) Guess who spent two years in prison? *hint* NOT ME! hahahaha

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      8. It was actually for marijuana charges (but yes the police were all stupid and lied and the usual blahblah. The scary part is that his FORMER best friend before me went missing and has never been found. The weed thing was peripheral to that. I’m finding it hard to believe now that I know what he is that he doesn’t know SOMETHING that. I doubt he participated because that was his income (and a supply source) and he is MUCH too lazy to do anything but mindless menial tasks (washing windows, dishwashing) plus it would put himself at risk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_n6ct2Q_uQ

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      10. Yep! I was laughing so hard the other day when I realized that I had testified in court to one of his confabulations. They never actually caught him WITH any drugs so they had to estimate how many pounds they were moving from Canada by piecing together reports of weights and dollar amounts. Long story short, I told the police about him bragging about the time he and his girlfriend had sex on top of a pile of $50,000. Turns out he had made that up, trying to be a bigshot. God, I hope he got extra time for that! Hahahaha!

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  19. Thank you for the follow. We must be in the same dinosaur generation and know the same kind of people. One of mine was a neighbor who lived in the other half of the duplex. We got along fine until I became pregnant with my 2nd child and let my single sister stay with us who also was pregnant . She would yell obscenities through the wall and damage our property. There were others and they are going to be featured in my novels. Names will be changed to protect the guilty as well as the innocent.
    I’m following you now. I love your sense of humor. And who knows, I might need a stalker in one of my books and I can use yours. I’ll pray for you and the stalker.

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  20. Unfortunately, I was born to a narcissistic sociopath. Putting the pieces together is a lifetime journey. But there is hope and today I have a life I never could have dreamed of.

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  21. “No contact” is the way I freed myself from the narcissist’s web. This post is educational and not contacting or written to the predator but about the characteristics. How being denied a source to suck the life from affects them. I identify with this and think I am am not alone in the reality of absolute madness of a narcissistic personality. These people exist. Great post!

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  22. Narcissists are mentally ill. If you stay with them you too will become mentally ill that’s how they will have you. Sick, sick people toxic yes, poisonous yes, dangerous yes. Run as fast as you can from them. My heart aches for all the people involved with these sickos . Mel x

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