The Charming Narcissist

It is hard to believe how well a Narcissist or Sociopath can fool people. It happened to me and several others. The woman was amazing. Funny, smart and really pretty. Each one of us thought we had found our best friend. Individually she groomed us. Made us feel special and important. The thing with a… Continue reading The Charming Narcissist

Fly free from emotional abuse

Emotional abuse is never ok. It can leave scars much deeper than any fist hitting flesh. The wounds are carried in the mind, heart and soul. People who are sensitive and caring are usually the victims. They are easy to manipulate because they really care about others. It often starts with the perpetrator putting the… Continue reading Fly free from emotional abuse

Vanity a cautionary tale

In our youth we depend on our looks to attract a mate. We primp and polish and pose. Some never get beyond that stage. Most of us come to the realization eventually that there is more to life than that. The narcissist never does. When they look in the mirror they don’t see reality they… Continue reading Vanity a cautionary tale

Mae West had it right

No woman should put a man above her men and women should be partners nobody should be “in charge”. Narcissists look for women that don’t value themselves and need a man to make them feel complete. Men who don’t value themselves or have had narcissistic mothers will look for those very traits in a woman… Continue reading Mae West had it right

False Friends get found out

I just don’t get some people. Why would you be friends with someone then turn around and pull something you know that will destroy that friendship? Lying is one of the cardinal sins in a friendship. If you lie to someone that cares about you then you are just telling them they aren’t worth the truth.… Continue reading False Friends get found out

Narcissist Achilles Heel

I just read a very eloquent article by a really brilliant woman. You may know her. http://luckyottershaven.com/2015/03/07/my-friendship-with-a-famous-narcissist-is-over/ This is her article I did reblog but I wanted to go further than that. What made this wonderful, caring brilliant woman care about an avowed narcissist who openly has great distain for women and people in general?… Continue reading Narcissist Achilles Heel

You can stop bullying

Bullying of any kind is wrong but why do people do it? We all say we are against it but how many of you out there have said an unkind word about someone else? Why did you? All of us are guilty of bullying or being unkind sometime in our lives. If you gossip about… Continue reading You can stop bullying