Blue eyed Wolf

The blue-eyed wolf is not what he seems He isn’t the answer to all of your dreams. Betrayal so deep, it will cut to the bone, Leave you bereft, leave you alone. He can’t stay long you see Be all you want him to be. For like you, he has no soul, Mate once and…

Sad Lonely Doll

Sad Lonely doll sitting in an abandoned flat, Thinking of nothing but this and that. A lost future a distance past.  Nothing left to do but think, and flounder and sink. Not so long ago the future looked so bright, Then one terrible night, She was left abandoned, to sit on the floor Listen to…

Mad Woman

She was as mad as mad can be  At least, she seemed to me She ranted, she raved Screamed things depraved.  Sank into a chasm With a weird Miasm I watched all this from afar  from my home, from my car All this on the internet Where she would beget Paranoia so very fine Like…

Some things just can’t be fixed.

If it isn’t healthy leave before it sucks the life out of you.

The Charming Narcissist

It is hard to believe how well a Narcissist or Sociopath can fool people. It happened to me and several others. The woman was amazing. Funny, smart and really pretty. Each one of us thought we had found our best friend. Individually she groomed us. Made us feel special and important. The thing with a…

Fly free from emotional abuse

Emotional abuse is never ok. It can leave scars much deeper than any fist hitting flesh. The wounds are carried in the mind, heart and soul. People who are sensitive and caring are usually the victims. They are easy to manipulate because they really care about others. It often starts with the perpetrator putting the…

Vanity a cautionary tale

In our youth we depend on our looks to attract a mate. We primp and polish and pose. Some never get beyond that stage. Most of us come to the realization eventually that there is more to life than that. The narcissist never does. When they look in the mirror they don’t see reality they…

Mae West had it right

No woman should put a man above her men and women should be partners nobody should be “in charge”. Narcissists look for women that don’t value themselves and need a man to make them feel complete. Men who don’t value themselves or have had narcissistic mothers will look for those very traits in a woman…

The tin man in a mask

Tiptoe around him or feel his wrath Feel his pain rip off his mask. Is he really there or a fake Could you really help or make Him care? He wraps the tendrils around your heart Twists them until he can start To control you, make you his All he does all of this. To…

Narcissism or just selfishness???

So we have talked a lot about the narcissist but how do you tell the difference between a really selfish person and a narcissist?? In a narcissist there just is no one else unless they are there to gratify the narcissists grandiose view of herself or himself. Others are just tools. From biological studies it…